it may have been mind over matter
i was a runt not ready to grow up
couldn’t muscle respect from the alpha males
got pushed around I wasn’t tough enough
my mother was my go to person
to my boyish ways she couldn’t relate
i would never be the daughter Dad wanted
he worried openly I might not be straight
can’t wipe the stereotypes from their hard drives
as a man learned not to let them eat me alive
my androgynous sides once despised
over time were embraced by admiring eyes
now with a crooked smile
i bid my tears goodbye
and a version of me I won’t miss
shake off the hurts of the past
with a wave and a kiss
jumped into dating better late than never
BFF’s gave me confidence to play
having empathy increased my appeal
in time helped bring romance my way
so as far as any simple labels
that to me were misapplied
no one will dictate my value
my self-worth is mine to decide
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found men like me to share what they’d endured
they empowered me to rise and say no more
i honor them now to mention
they inspired my reinvention
my father was a master of put downs
once upon a time
heusedto say he never did me wrong
and took away my right to speak my mind
black folks were hired to clean our home
he paid them well to know their place
dad tried to boost his status in life
lording over this race
let’s call a spade a spade
and on sin shine redemption’s light
there are no shades of grey here
all discrimination’s wrong, that’s black and white
i’ve never been stopped by a hateful cop nor have any of my next of kin
but people of color can’t run or hide from the color of their skin
people of color can’t run or hide from the color from the color of their skin
peace officers start wars
when they commit deadly racial crimes
forever these strong arms of the law
make my heart beat triple time
marching in protest with my feet
is an option I’m slow to move toward
still this call to action has my vote
i’ll give in every way I can afford
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for some whiteness is a false idol
they are slaves to a one track mind
in a culture at war with free thinking
they chase white privilege they’re denied
these hearts won’t bleed for justice
that equal rights be shared by Blacks
so if black lives are to matter
the rest of us must have their backs
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Many thanks to Todd Urban of Urban Sound Studio for engineering and producing these appealing tracks.